Being
sociable is a very charismatic attribute. People would rather approach a
sociable person than a person who appears too cool or self-centered person.
Tired of being alone? Tired of realizing that no one wants to talk to you or
approach you? Often being left out in conversations? Here are some tips where
you can appear to be a more sociable person!
Smile
more often
Smile is the most attractive attribute that EVERYONE can have. People will
rather approach a person who smiles often compared to someone who always look
troubled or frustrated. Smiling is a contagious medicine. People will tend to
smile more when communicating with someone who smiles a lot ( Of course, not
during serious conversations ). And honestly, who wouldn’t want to be happy? If
they can feel happy talking to you, they will absolutely love to talk to you
more.
Be
more sensitive to other’s feelings
Being sensitive to people’s need is one of the most important factor of being a
sociable person. By being sensitive, I mean to be aware of the consequences of
your choice of words/actions. Always think what the other party will feel when
such you were to act a certain manner. Of course, if it’s going to annoy
someone, then just avoid doing such things. Once they feel that you are
sensitive to their needs, of course you will appear to be more understanding
their situation and that is when people will choose to confide in you.
Be
tactful with your words
Instead of saying things like. “You are bad/terrible” try to use things like “I
think there is room for improvement”. People usually likes to hear compliments
and good stuff, it is just human nature. So next time when you want to point
out a bad point portrayed by a certain person, you can to praise the person first
before giving your comments. Most people are generally more acceptable to
criticism if they are in a better mood. No harm trying to make him/her feel
slightly better before giving him your constructive comments.
Avoid
gossiping about others behind their back
I mean, everyone likes to gossip. However, this will put a negative image
implanted in others mind. If you were to see someone who gossips a lot or
spread bad things about others on a regular basis. You will think twice before
telling him some information because he/she is someone which u know will not be
trustworthy. There are so many other ways to start a conversation, do not make
use of others as your topic just to start a conversation. It’s not cool.
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